True. Something like Cathay Silver saves tons of hassle. But getting it requires flying a lot.
I love travelling with people who have a Cathay Diamond card (all bankers). They can take you into the First Class Lounge where you get seriously good food and drink served to you, and which isn't full. They can also take you with them and help you board first.
Failing that, travel with youngish kids, as that way you still get to board just after the Business class guys.